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selectiveavant-garde:

pepperminteyecandy:

vegkid:

just saw this on postsecret.com and I have to say
Congratulations, you have just won the shittiest parent award.
fuck you.
#rape culture

I actually cannot fathom how you can blame someone for being reckless and possibly a little bit self destructive for someone else’s fucked up actions. I just seems so blatantly obvious who’s to blame. Why are people allowed to get away with taking no responsibility for their sexual actions? There is NEVER any excuse for rape or sexual abuse. 
Rape is NEVER okay and you should NEVER blame the victim.

Yeah, I was pretty shocked when I saw that on post secret.  Of course there are precautions we can all take, not just women, to be safe in situations where sexual assault is possible.  However, by blaming the victim you are reinforcing the idea that you’re an idiot.  If you’re so concerned about your daughter being reckless, FUCKING TEACH HER HOW TO BE SAFE WHEN DUMBASS, RAPISTS TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HER WHEN SHE’S TRYING TO HAVE FUN.  FUCK YOU ASSHOLE.

Wow.

selectiveavant-garde:

pepperminteyecandy:

vegkid:

just saw this on postsecret.com and I have to say

Congratulations, you have just won the shittiest parent award.

fuck you.

#rape culture

I actually cannot fathom how you can blame someone for being reckless and possibly a little bit self destructive for someone else’s fucked up actions. I just seems so blatantly obvious who’s to blame. Why are people allowed to get away with taking no responsibility for their sexual actions? There is NEVER any excuse for rape or sexual abuse. 

Rape is NEVER okay and you should NEVER blame the victim.

Yeah, I was pretty shocked when I saw that on post secret.  Of course there are precautions we can all take, not just women, to be safe in situations where sexual assault is possible.  However, by blaming the victim you are reinforcing the idea that you’re an idiot.  If you’re so concerned about your daughter being reckless, FUCKING TEACH HER HOW TO BE SAFE WHEN DUMBASS, RAPISTS TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HER WHEN SHE’S TRYING TO HAVE FUN.  FUCK YOU ASSHOLE.

Wow.

glad I got home before this downpour.

today I:

-ate eggs w onions and peppers (my fave)

-deposited dolla dolla billz in the bank

-did 3 rounds of squats, clean and jerks, deadlifts, and triceps dips at the gym

-did a short burst on the elliptical

-walked ~4 miles in the waning sunlight

-got a manicure, pedicure, and my eyebrows threaded

-bought 2 bottles of wine (Bully Hill, from the Fingerlakes!  in Queens!)

-ate the best coconut organic frozen yogurt I’ve ever had (I went all the way to Williamsburg by myself just to get it)

-put in some laundry

-took out the recyclables 

now, going to clean a little more … hope that this rain cools everything down a touch … fold some laundry … and perhaps do a little bicycling if the mood strikes before starting dinner, while I wait for Kira to come home and get me.

I’m not bragging or anything, but …
130% faster.  Yeah.

Also - 
Kettlebells + Stationary Bike = 56 minutes
Nap = 1.5 hrs

Now, into the city for a lovely dinner date. 
Also, some frozen kefir for dessert!  PUMPED.

I’m not bragging or anything, but …

130% faster.  Yeah.

Also - 

Kettlebells + Stationary Bike = 56 minutes

Nap = 1.5 hrs

Now, into the city for a lovely dinner date. 

Also, some frozen kefir for dessert!  PUMPED.

He read an entire book about naked mole rats, the least he can do is write a poem about them.

  • Me: (writing down list of "ideas" for poetry)
  • Student: (watching as I jot ideas down) What? Seriously? Naked mole rat? I am not writing a poem about naked mole rats.
  • Me: Why not? Come on, it'd be great!
  • Student: ...
ughhhh. REFUSE.

ughhhh. REFUSE.

(via teaandtolstoy)

post kettlebell workout:
watching a documentary on Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers while I pedal away on my bicycle (using a pretty nifty piece of equipment that turns any bicycle into a stationary bicycle), drinking a strawberry-spinach-vanilla almond milk-protein shake.
good wednesday.
now, if only the days would go a little bit faster …

post kettlebell workout:

watching a documentary on Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers while I pedal away on my bicycle (using a pretty nifty piece of equipment that turns any bicycle into a stationary bicycle), drinking a strawberry-spinach-vanilla almond milk-protein shake.

good wednesday.

now, if only the days would go a little bit faster …

(Source: pom-tetty)

The below conversation really only makes sense if you know:

She’s reading “Practical Welding” and I’m reading a book of modernized fairy-tales.

Could there be two more different minds?

  • Kira: (trying to talk about pounds per square inch)
  • Me: ... I really don't care. You should just stop. Stop talking.
  • Kira: Ugh! You don't care?!
  • Me: There are things you don't care about!! That you wouldn't want to hear anything about!
  • Kira: Oh yeah? Like what. There's nothing.
  • Me: ... Like makeup.
  • Kira: You bitch! ... you got me.

fuckyeahbookarts:

Wonderland Series by Kirsty Mitchell

Kirsty Mitchell’s late mother Maureen was an English teacher who spent her life inspiring generations of children with imaginative stories and plays. Following Maureen’s death from a brain tumour in 2008, Kirsty channelled her grief into her passion for photography.

She retreated behind the lens of her camera and created Wonderland, an ethereal fantasy world. The photographic series began as a small summer project but grew into an inspirational creative journey. ‘Real life became a difficult place to deal with, and I found myself retreating further into an alternative existence through the portal of my camera,’ said the artist.

Read the full story here.

This goes well with the book I’m reading - My Mother She Killed Me, My Father He Ate Me - a collection of updated fairytales.

Full body workout yesterday with Crystal.  Not as scary as I thought.  

Did 3 sets of:

Squats (with just the bar, so we figured 15lbs) - 10 reps

Clean and Jerks - 8-10 reps

Deadlifts (35 lbs) - 10 reps

Tricep Dips - 8 reps

Feelin it today, let me tell you what.  Enjoyed it very much, though.  Will incorporate that into my weekly routine.  Now I know how to use actual gym equipment, also.  Will incorporate that into my typical routine also.

Followed it up with a delicious protein shake, romping in Williamsburg, and outdoor drinking.

LOVELY SATURDAY, LET ME TELL YOU WHAT.

Then went to the NYC tattoo convention … definitely not my cup of tea.  I don’t think it’s okay that they allow alcohol at the convention, but I think I may be the only one with that opinion.  I may also be tainted by the obnoxiously drunken acquaintances we ran into, and ended up trying to desperately avoid.  Ugh.  It is not cute or funny or endearing to be that drunk.  Sorry.

ANYWAY.

Full body workout.  Good.  

animalstalkinginallcaps:

I REPLACED ALAN’S GATORADE WITH ANTIFREEZE!
LET’S SEE IF HE NOTICES!

animalstalkinginallcaps:

I REPLACED ALAN’S GATORADE WITH ANTIFREEZE!

LET’S SEE IF HE NOTICES!

“I look up at the sky, wondering if I’ll catch a glimpse of kindness there, but I don’t.”

Finished reading What I Talk About When I Talk About Running by Haruki Murakami. 

Loved it.  Need to read more by him.  Up until now, I’ve been avoiding his books for some reason.

And it gave me a good little boost of confidence/inspiration.  Did sprints yesterday.

Day 3, success.

Today, I unintentionally napped for 2.5 hours when I got home from work.  Crash city.  So, it was a rest day.  Walked 1.5 miles at a pretty good pace, though.  18 minutes isn’t bad - it’s not great, but it’s not bad. 

I’ll get there.

Tomorrow, going to get a little training from a real good friend, a real chum, a real pal.  She knows her stuff.  I might die.  Barbells and heavier weight than I’m used to.  But, gotta learn this shit sometime, right?  

thetangential:

A shower that doesn’t require temperature adjustment any time anyone in America flushes a toilet.

Enough similar pairs of socks that you don’t need to dig through the sock drawer for five minutes to find a sock that matches the one you just pulled out.

A replacement lightbulb when you need…

A car that doesn’t make any sounds that make you nervous.

(Source: thetangential.com)